You can’t play football by the rules of baseball, and you can’t play the game of Child Custody in Family Court if you don’t know the rules – today I share with you three keys to better results in child custody battles. For fathers who are fighting to keep or increase their custodial time, there are things you need to know that will make all the difference for you – this episode of the Men’s Family Law podcast covers the basics.

book_child-custody_thumbI also interview Dr. Eric Frazer from Child Custody Analytics on tools he’s developed to help lawyers and their clients be more successful in court. 

Also heres’ a video about his company Child Custody Analytics:

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Father Caring for His Sick Son in Shower Should Be Honored NOT Reported

I come from a different age, I don’t view nudity as a big deal. I especially don’t think it’s a big deal between a parent and a sick child who is puking and pooping from the stomach flu. This story was written by a mother to give credit to her husband  and what he was doing to take care of their sick son. It is a beautiful piece in my estimation.

Frankly I’m appalled that we live in a world where people would look at this picture, see the backstory and have the nerve to report it as inappropriate.


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Father and sick son in shower.

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MFL#041 Hot For Teacher ? | Chris Anderson of

This episode of the Men’s Family Law podcast has Christopher Anderson of discussing with David Pisarra the short term effects and long term effects of sexual abuse on boys and how it manifests when they are adults. When men are silenced by a society that doesn’t let them share their emotions, they internalize them and that leads to drug addiction, alcohol abuse and sex addiction, failed relationships and life problems.

It’s odd how many men think it would “cool” if they had a teacher that molested them when they were kids, but wouldn’t want it for their sons or daughters because they know it is wrong. I think we need to have more discussions about this topic to raise awareness and root out those teachers who are abusing boys and young men.

Here’s information for parents when their boys are abused:

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Can Tyga Release a Sex Tape with Kylie Jenner?

It’s a hot topic this week! TYGA taping himself having doing the deed with Kylie Jenner, IF there’s a tape that get out, he could be in big trouble, or not. If HE releases it, big trouble, if someone illegally gets ahold of it, he may be off the hook, but reap the publicity benefits -hey it worked for Kim! and Paris! and Pam!

Check out my take on the issue in this article:

“There are several legal loopholes Tyga could jump through if he wanted to release a sex tape with his ex gf Kylie Jenner without getting into too much trouble and perhaps even make a few dollars in the process,” California Attorney David Pisarra explained to “One way around the revenge sex porn law would be if Tyga did not release the tape himself. If he could claim in court that he accidentally left a laptop with the sex tape on it out in his house, and he had a small party at his house where a stranger had access to the computer. Tyga could claim a stranger then posted the video without Tyga’s knowledge. Tyga must prove that he did not intend for the tape to be released. Intent is key.”

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Can Tyga  Pay Less Child Support if Blac Chyna Marries Rob Kardashian?

Whenever the babymama gets a new man, the ex wants to know if he gets to pay less Child Support, I was asked about this for in regards to Blac Chyna potentially marrying Rob Kardashian – the short answer is the new man is not responsible, and it wont help in lowering the child support that Tyga is paying.


“If Blac were to get a new job earning 7 figures, like a TV contract, that would likely have very little effect on Tyga’s child support payments. As long as Blac has custody and until that child turns 18, Tyga is financially responsible. There is little that can change that,” says David Pisarra, a father’s rights expert and California divorce attorney. Maybe this will motivate Tyga to get his finances in order and work harder to support his son!


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Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna go shopping.

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How Could Tyga Sell a Sex Tape He Made with Kylie Jenner?

We all know the way the Kardashian empire got started, thanks to Kim’s sex tape, could her little sister Kylie expand the empire with her own sex tape? Probably. Does she want to though?

I was interviewed by on this topic and in the article I said:

“Tyga would need written consent from Kylie before he can release a sex tape of the two of them,” David explained EXCLUSIVELY to “Any sex tape released without Kylie’s consent would possibly fall under California’s new revenge porn law which prevents exes from releasing private material after relationships end.”

Read the full article here.

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It’s a dream for some men, to be a father that becomes a nightmare when the woman they choose becomes their nemesis – but some men are opting out of having a mother for their children. Here’s how they’re doing it – on this episode of the Men’s Family Law podcast.

We talk with Julia Van Reeven, an embryologist, about fertility treatments, what’s possible in this new world of biotech, and the sad case of Dr. Mimi Lee, who had embryos with her ex-husband, that now have to be destroyed because of their divorce.


The podcast episode is here:

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What I have to say about Kesha V Dr. Luke: She’s Stuck With Her Sony Contract, Even If She Proves He Raped Her

No one supports rape or rapists, but is the allegation enough to get out of a contract? Nope. I chime in on the Kesha vs. Dr. Luke controversy in this article for where I don’t take sides. No one but Kesha and Dr. Luke really know what happened in their relationship. Could Kesha just want out of a bad contract and be trying to get out by saying he raped her – sure she could be, seems a bit extreme though. Did Dr. Luke really rape her? maybe, or did they have sex and now she regrets it? No one knows but her and him.

It’s the problem in sexual assault cases, and rape allegations – usually there’s no witnesses and no outside evidence. That’s why I said the following in this article:

“Kesha doesn’t have any legal grounds to get out of her contract and that is one of the reasons why the court ruled the way they did,” California Attorney David Pisarra tells HollywoodLife.comEXCLUSIVELY. “If Kesha complains that she is afraid to be in the room with Dr. Luke, then she should hire a bodyguard, and never be alone with the guy — it’s really simple.”

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Kesha wraps herself in the American flag.

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Tyga Ready To Fight Blac Chyna for Child Custody Of King Cairo After Drug Arrest

Child Custody is always a hotly contested topic, especially when there’s allegations of drug use or abuse by one of the parents; Tyga might be going after Blac Chyna for Child Custody since her arrest for drug possession. It might effect her ability to keep custody of King Cairo, but I chime in here for about my thoughts on how drug use, abuse and being arrested will play out in front of the family court judge.

So, does Tyga stand a chance at taking full custody of King Cairo from Blac Chyna? The answer is, simply, yes, according to David Pisarra, a Father Rights Activist, and Men’s Family Lawyer., who told EXCLUSIVELY, “Tyga could take Blac to court and use the argument that Blac is a negligent mother and that their child is in danger. A judge could rule in his favor and Tyga could gain custody.”

How? Well, as David explained to us, “Blac Chyna could be a negligent mother if, by her own admission, she really did not know there were drugs in her bag. If she did not know where there are drugs in her house when her assistant packed her bags then how can she say for sure that her child could not find drugs and use them? Tyga could try to use the charge to bootstrap himself and claim that Blac is a drug addict and a negligent parent. If she can’t keep track of drugs, how can she be a capable parent?” Ouch.

Photo of Tyga, Blac Chyna and King Cairo in happier times.

Tyga, Blac Chyna and King Cairo in happier times.

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Here’s the CDC Report on Intimate Partner Violence that supports the statements I make about how prevalent female on male abuse is.


National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey

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