Sperm Banking for Worry Free Sex

Published on 14 September 2016 by in blog

Sperm Banking for Worry Free Sex

I give my legal clients loads of advice – advice that is more “how to be happy” than it is legal sometimes. One of the many things I tell men is that to be free and happy and take control over their futures is to take control over their reproductive choices. That’s usually a woman’s topic, but the times they are a’ changing.

Today, men have options that previous generations didn’t in terms of their contraceptive choices and the actions that they can take to not only preserve their best genetic material, but also guard against an unwanted pregnancy from that weekend frolic with the woman you didn’t really get to know.

What I tell men is they should go to a sperm bank and freeze enough of their sperm to ensure as many opportunities to be a father as they want, and then they need to get a vasectomy and they can live the rest of their life  having worry-free sex without a concern of unintentionally becoming a father.

This week I’m doing research on Cryo Choice, a company that specializes in preserving sperm for men on a private basis so that they can preserve their opportunities for parenthood at the same time as making responsible decisions about their contraceptive choices. I’ll be speaking with a Cryo Choice representative about the process, the costs and the benefits on my Men’s Family Law podcast – which is why I’m doing research today.

If you’ve ever wondered about sperm banks, vasectomies and how to protect yourself and live a worry free life – the Sperm Bank episode and the Vasectomy episode will answer your questions.

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Chris Brown had a standoff this week with the Los Angeles Police Department. The drama continues in his never ending troubles with the law. 

What this means is that he’s giving his Baby Mama lots and lots of fodder to drag him back to court and stop his unsupervised custody and that means she’ll be coming after him for more money in the form of more child support. 

  • I spoke with Hollywoodlife.com and gave my opinion on the impact of his criminal cases on the family law case. 

Chris Brown Standoff leads to Custody Crisis.

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Can Taylor Swift Sue Kanye West or Kim Kardashian for Libel? Find out here

I was interviewed by Hollywoodlife.com on the burning issue of Kanye West and Kim Kardashian being guilty of libel or slander of Taylor Swift and if that means there’s a lawsuit in the works. It turns out that Kim Kardashian West had recorded the conversation with her husband Kanye West and Taylor Swift so there is now “proof” of what was actually said about whether or not she agreed to the Famous video and lyrics.

You can read my full take on it here. The biggest issue is going to be proving damages to Taylor Swift’s career or earning power since she’s a public figure.



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Will Louis Tomlinson Pay Briana Jungwirth OUTRAGEOUS CHILD SUPPORT?

So in the never ending world of child custody and child support battles, the demands can get outrageous. Case in Point – Briana Jungwirth, who plays baby-mama to Louis Tomlinson is looking for a bigger payday!

Louis is already paying for a Malibu Beach  Mansion for her, PLUS giving her Monthly Child Support, but is that enough? NOOOOOO – she wants more! It’s the cry of the North American Baby Mama – “I Can’t LIVE on THAT!” even wehn that is $15,000 a month WITH NO TAXES OWING! AND HER HOUSE PAYMENT IS PAID.



Sheesh – makes me want to have a kid with one of these guys……Anyways I explain it all here on HollywoodLife.com

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Today’s show is about suicide and suicide prevention tactics for men going through a divorce. It’s the 10th leading cause of death in America, Men are 3.5 times more likely to die by suicide than women. White males were 70% of the suicides in 2014. Worst of all, it is preventable. We can help each other, and that’s why I’m taking on this topic today.

Here’s a list of hotlines if you’re in crisis and are considering suicide or have developed a suicide plan.

www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org – Call 24/7 1-800-273-8255

www.veteranscrisisline.net Veterans Crisis Line – 800-273-8255 Press 1

www.afsp.org – American Foundation for Suicide Prevention

My guest today is Michael Volpe, his book Bullied to Death: Chris Mackney’s Kafkaesque Divorce puts forth the story of how the abuse of the legal process created a divorce nightmare by a vengeful ex-wife, a remorseless father-in-law and lawyers, psychologists and judges drove one man to kill himself. His book is available here at Amazon:


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This episode has David speaking with Dr. Debra Warner about the SCRIPT (Summit on Community Resilience, Intervention, Prevention, and Training) Conference – Stopping the Stigma of Male Sexual Trauma. For men who have been sexual abused as adults or as children, oftentimes they don’t confront the trauma of their abuse, and that can lead to them being revictimized and victims of domestic violence, further trauma and until it’s resolved the problems will continue.

TO address the issues specifically faced by men who have been sexually, emotionally or psychologically abused, whether it is sexual harassment, child abuse or emotional neglect, the SCRIPT conference was formed for your issues. It’s a free conference and open to the public, to learn more just listen to the podcast!

www.thescriptconference.com – The Script Conference Website.

www.NAASCA.ORG – The National Association of of Adult Survivors of Child Abuse.

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Pay Your Child Support With Pizza? Maybe.

In the News of The Wacky, I came across this article on Huffington Post about a man who was being charged with the crime of not paying his child support. It turns out though that the FEMALE JUDGE agreed with his lawyer, that when hard times hit and he didn’t have the cash to pay the $350 a month in support to his ex wife, his offer to give her that much in pizza, calzones and other food from his restaurant, counted. His ex-wife turned him down, and then came after him for the cash but the court sided with him, and acquitted him of any crime.

So can you pay your support in pizza? maybe if you own a pizzeria. How about subs? maybe if you own a Subway Restaurant. The point really is that he made his best efforts to be a stand up guy, would that work in the states? it’s a tough call. But hey, if it’s all you’ve got as an argument. Go with it.

picture of pizza


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Johnny Depp’s Dog Custody Is An Issue in His Celebrity Divorce From Amber Heard

I am frequently asked to comment on dog and pet custody cases since writing the book What About Wally? Co-Parenting a Pet With Your Ex. As the nation’s leading authority on pet custody, I have strong opinions on what can and should be done to protect the puppies.

Hollywoodlife.com asked me to comment exclusively on the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard divorce based on their co-parenting of their internationally famous pooches – a pair of Yorkies

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard with dogs

Johnny Depp and Amber Heard with dogs

. I chimed in on the nasty divorce proceedings and warned that the dogs could be covered by a Domestic Violence Restraining Order in California – and YUP! Amber asked for it! but the judge denied it.

Here’s my comments on the case:




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You can’t play football by the rules of baseball, and you can’t play the game of Child Custody in Family Court if you don’t know the rules – today I share with you three keys to better results in child custody battles. For fathers who are fighting to keep or increase their custodial time, there are things you need to know that will make all the difference for you – this episode of the Men’s Family Law podcast covers the basics.

book_child-custody_thumbI also interview Dr. Eric Frazer from Child Custody Analytics on tools he’s developed to help lawyers and their clients be more successful in court.


Also heres’ a video about his company Child Custody Analytics:


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Father Caring for His Sick Son in Shower Should Be Honored NOT Reported

I come from a different age, I don’t view nudity as a big deal. I especially don’t think it’s a big deal between a parent and a sick child who is puking and pooping from the stomach flu. This story was written by a mother to give credit to her husband  and what he was doing to take care of their sick son. It is a beautiful piece in my estimation.

Frankly I’m appalled that we live in a world where people would look at this picture, see the backstory and have the nerve to report it as inappropriate.



picture of father and son in shower

Father and sick son in shower.

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